Welcome to the SR family!
We are glad you found us. You will find support for yourself and lots of information.
Have you heard of Alanon meetings? They are face-to-face group support meetings for friends and family of alcoholics. It is a 12 step program that uses the same 12 steps as AA meetings. Alanon is an option for you as a 21 y.o. with an alcoholic parent.
You can also make yourself at home here by posting your questions and concerns.
I am sorry that you had to witness the drama of police being summoned. I know it must have been very frustrating to see the police side with your mother. Your mom was doing what most active alcoholics are skilled at doing: manipulating. Unfortunately, the police officer was doing the best he could on the information provided.
Please continue to reach out for support for yourself. You are not alone!
This is from one of our sticky posts (permanent posts) at the top of the forum:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html