Sounds like you handled the conversation with grace and kept your cool - that is great. I have had several "talks" with ABF and he often was in agreement with what I said. I got all kinds of warm fuzzies from that. Problem was the action part. ABF placated me and then kept right on going with his same old and he came out with plenty of passive agressive new stuff too to counter act much of what he "said".
We don't fight much at all - more like a chess game - move and counter move. The talks were just a part of that slow motion game for us. Hope your outcome is more postive then mine has been.