Hi suic
I think most of us have had a 'me' problem...with me I ended up with a me problem and a drinking problem.
It's easy to say I should have known, I should have done that - but its pretty pointless really...we can't change the past - we have to accept it all happened, and take what good we can from that (at least we learned things along the way, and it bought us both here, right? Like Anna said, it's a process...)
...and then we move on.
What matters most is what we do about it all now, suic
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