In Ireland its called a Barring Order. It means that he cannot come within a 100 yards of the house, he cannot call or threaten me even verbally or he will automatically get 12 months in prison. It usually the last straw as you have to go to court to apply for one, they dont cost that much, but because they are so strict some people get protection orders as this means that they can come to the house but cannot put you in fear. In some cases women have been afraid to give evidence in court as you have to sit facing them in court and the cases are thrown out and the barring order is no longer valid leaving you very vulnerable again. Also if you make the mistake of opening the door the order isnt valid. So its very stressful getting it out. You have to be 100%. I do feel confident after posting tonight but i will definitely be seeking advice in the morning. i need to make the right choices now for us and stick with them this time