Originally Posted by
baabaa 
No its not harsh. I did call the cops last month and they found nothing, he is smart enough not to have anything in the house. Today was unusual in the sense that I found him like that. The kids went away on a holiday this afternoon so he probably was taking advantage as that what he always does. It makes me feel stronger knowing that there is people out there who have been through similar circumstances and have made it!!It gives ME the courage to accept the things I cannot change and the courage to know the difference...
maybe with the kids on holiday, they would not have to witness the whole drama of it all.
he thinks you will do nothing, but you can do something.
hmmm
you have a domestic violence hotline in ireland?
certainly something like that?
or someone in your alanon group can help you with suggestions.
i just had to throw out my heroin addicted son baabaa. I know how hard this is, and how worn out you are. just keep moving, you can do this.
beth