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Old 06-30-2010, 05:03 AM
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coffeedrinker
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mentally,

i just want to make an observation. you said that the book says that growth will occur on both sides. this causes me to think that you learning about, and setting, boundaries, is a veiled attempt to effect a change in your husband. it seems to me to be a horse of a different color.

keep working through these things. they are bringing you to a deeper, crucial understanding.

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