Well, I had this whole big response typed out and POOF it was gone..kinda like him.
I am sorry, however, he did you a big favor, so accept it and move forward.
He is an alcoholic, and as all are, impulsive.
Be thankful that the "New Bride" is for now, stuck with him.
Do something special for yourself, take a hot bath, pour in the bubbles and light the candles.
Tomorrow is a new day, embrace it.
Hugs,
Dolly