Originally Posted by
Katfshh 
I so desperatly want my man to come back, but I can't get through to him.
Why desperately? What happens to your life if he doesn't 'come back'?
And what makes him 'your' man. He's his own man. He owes you nothing.
Originally Posted by
Katfshh I'm thinking I should not reply to another text until he says he is sober?
How about you not reply to another text until he's been sober for a year? Aren't recovering alcoholics supposed to not engage in new relationships for their first year of sobriety?
How about not replying to another text, until you've figured out why you 'need' him and are 'desperate' for him? And how you can meet your own needs and leave desperation out of your relationships.
You two seem like poison for each other right now. You destract him from his recovery work, if indeed he's really serious about it. A big 'if'. And he distracts you from finding yourself.