Mine was abusive too....Would pout like a three year old if something didn't go his way....Oh the tantrums...Then of couse something would be my fault....so he could yell some more....I told him the next time would be the last time and I meant it....that was two months ago....and here I am...he's having the time of his life and I'm sad....I'll get over it though....
I didn't realize how many alcoholics are mean.....Mine also did cocaine...Thought that was the root of the hostility...Now it doesn't matter what or why...It's just him....Unacceptable behavior..