He won't listen to anything to do with God etc etc. therefore no he won't, and he's at his mum's because they don't get on whether he's sober or not, fact of the matter is, he was always out to begin with because they don't get on and are in the same house as each other because of the kids. And he didn't tell me that, people around him did. He spends all his time in his shed (or did) until he moved to his mums while he gets sorted. What he does then is upto him, hence him needing to sort his head out to find out what he wants, which I truly believe is me.