Originally Posted by
Anon1972 
but I am 110% sure he is, and that is based on my attraction for him
If attraction were my only qualification, I would have had about a dozen 'only ones' by now.
Just because I'm attracted doesn't necessarily equate that they are good for me.
As a matter of fact, my past experiences were just the opposite.
My attractions over the years created a lot of pain in my life because I
acted on those attractions and jumped in feet first.
I wasn't healthy emotionally, so I didn't know what healthy emotionally looked like in someone else.
I wish you well, I sincerely do.