Obviously for many people it's heard to believe that love can come out of an affair but if you read up on the other POV it can, a lot of people have remarried due to an affair, or had a successful relationship. Most affairs happen because they find "the one" too late, some however are not too late enough to leave their families, as hurtful and un nice as it is, it happens. I would not wish anyone to be in my position but it doesn't make me a bad person, I don't enjoy being the other woman but these things do happen.