Kitty, great post!
"No thats b*ll**ks he hasn't once slagged her off, or said bad things about her, he's the total opposite, he doesn't want to hurt her, and he doesn't tell sob stories or nothing, it's absolutely NOTHING like that!"
Anon, He is already hurting his poor 'wife'. Like Kitty said, you most likely get what he feeds you. I'm sure he goes home to her, HIS FAMILY, and feeds her the same ol' BS. You can make excuses for as long as you'd like... but nothing is going to change.