"Don't judge me cos you can't help who you fall for!!"
I tend to disagree. I was just reading this discussion on these forums yesterday. To a great extent, one chooses who they fall in love with. If you knew he was married when you met him, you knew you were treading dangerous waters. Falling in love has just become an excuse for a poor decision.
I have nothing more to say, because this thread disturbs me. I'd suggest you stay away. Just my feelings.