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Old 06-20-2010, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by dgillz View Post
Are you sure of how much he makes or is this just how much he takes home?

I also think 6 months is a load of crap. However if you need to get your finances in order you can start immediately by not buying him anything. No suboxone, no food, nothing. Stop supporting his chosen lifestyle.
Good question. I'm thinkin he might be only contributing what he thinks he can get away with.

Six months sounds like an awfully long time to be miserable. Just prolonging the agony.

Could you be working on getting things in order on the side, and just keep getting yourself ready emotionally to make this break? I actually think that giving so much lead time will really only backfire in some way.

Good luck to you, and keep posting. It helps.
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