Originally Posted by
jerect 
Kicking him out will be a huge strain on me financially but I know longer care about that, thats how I know that this relationship is just too painful to stay in.
My heart hurts for you, and I know about a relationship being too painful to stay in.
I had a roommate/BF of about 2 years and things got worse and worse. The sad thing was I kept putting off doing anything because we were living in a place that was affordable for two working adults, which we were.
When it blew, it blew bad, and I ended up hitting him in the face after he called me the 'c' word and I busted his glasses.
He was out of the house that night. I'm ashamed that I handled it the way that I did. All those months of anger, frustration, and pain absolutely spewed out of me in the worst way possible.
I ditto Anvil's sentiment of why give him till the end of the year?
I feel that's prolonging the inevitable, and he's proven he has no interest in bettering himself. He doesn't have to as long as he's in the current circumstances.
I'm sorry you're hurting, hon. :ghug3