Hi Gianna
I'm just wondering; did your b/f tell you he didn't want to talk about it any more, or are you assuming that because he doesn't bring it up? One thing I have learned (through counselling) is that I need to lower my expectations of others and try to accept them as they are. Aside from that, if you feel the need to share more deeply with your partner (which I feel is quite natural), then communicate that to him. We assume sometimes that our partners must know how we are feeling, when really, they don't. Especially men LOL
You have your sobriety, and that is a real gift. Good to have you here!
Love, Rowan