SS,
I'm sorry your mother doesn't understand. When I was in rehab, there were many professional people, well-educated and intelligent. My program was only 30 days and excellent. The counselors were excellent and I learned so much. It changed my life for the better. Once the alcoholism was addressed, I was better able to work on my other issues.
Being inpatient gave me the breathing room to begin healing. It was the best thing for me. It was a safe place where I had 24 hour guidance and help.
My family didn't understand. Most programs have Family days where your family can attend and learn for themselves what it's all about. They'll learn alcoholism isn't a moral failing. It's a medical condition. And one that can be treated.
Please give it some thought if the counseling isn't enough.
Much love,
Lenina