He said "fine, I'll find someplace else to go". then proceeded to go upstairs with his friends while others were knocking on the door. I went up and asked him which part of our conversation he didn't understand. When I went in his room there were alcohol bottles in there, and I could smell pot. I told them all that this is not party central and they all had to get out. He got mouthy and said "I told you I was going to find someplace" I said well you can start now, everyone OUT!
I let my daughter walk all over me for way too long before I did that. I remember the moment like it was yesterday (Sept. '07), because it was the day I let go of fear and found my spine again.
I know you're not looking for praise, but I had to give it anyway. What you did was recovery in action and I wish everyone could see it!
I will keep you and your family in my prayers. May the Creator continue to bless you, one day at a time!