Well I talked to her and the outcome was as expected...Slightly defensive and insulted. I tried to ask questions more than anything to try and build off her answers etc.
Long story short, I told her I don't have a problem smoking pot but, I'm not going to date a pot head who isn't taking their recovery seriously. She told me I was right that's she smoking too much pot, she won't let it become a problem etc. Too bad that in itself is a obviously a problem as I shouldn't have to tell her that. So, that's the only time I'm gonna talk to her about it. I'm looking out for numero uno and if she becomes a liability it's tough love time. Thanks again everybody for your help and advice I am very thankful to have this forum to turn to. Peace!