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Old 05-14-2010, 05:51 AM
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sofacat
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"....I don't see that as hugely codependent."

Most of us don't....that's how we came here in the first place!

Try to be mindful of your expectations....why are you going to "talk" to her and what do you anticipate the outcome will be?

Are you really talking to her for her....or are you talking to her in the hopes that you will get what you want out of all of this?

"I hope I'm not coming off ignorant."

No one here thinks your ignorant....um, have we met? This is the one place in the world you should feel safe. We're all in the same boat, some of us have landed...some of us have set sail...and some of us have just pushed off....but we're all trying to go to the same place.


"F U DRUGS!!"

I agree.
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