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Old 05-12-2010, 11:02 PM
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woog
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You're assuming a lot and I feel as if your comment is a bit of a bait...She didn't have a problem with pot, she didn't have a problem with alcohol. She is who she is and to expect her to go cold turkey on everything is unrealistic for her. My stance is if us going to the bars like maybe once a week, and smoking pot here and there helps her stay sober, I'm fine with it. However, now since those crutches are appearing to be a problem I'm not ok with it. I rarely get in her face over anything, even when she relapsed. I don't scream at her about it, I just ask that she tells me when she screws up.
I'm at about my breaking point. I'm going to sit her down and tell her to get serious or I'm gonna bounce, plain and simple.
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