I also have changed some friends throughout my recovery. When I let go of the drama and didn't share it all anymore I had one friend who went to where it was...other people. Funny how I saw a change in a friend that I had had for Years. And, what about people that blame their existance and the choices they make on others when their choices don't work out. I really look for that now. I'm in a much happier place mentally but still have that edge a bit about how life will evolve here. Guess when you've been in a scarry place for so long it takes time to enjoy the present. I'm sure there will always be drama around so its up to us to sweep it away and learn how to shut that door. Love you guys~~great Post CP"s.....smiles