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Old 05-11-2010, 06:51 AM
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coffeedrinker
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yeah, i am not as evolved as a lot of them on here. i totally get looking in the bag, and i think that in light of him wanting to come over and see his son, it was totally justified. cuz otherwise you don't know if he's stable enough to want the boy with him, or to even carry on a conversation for that matter.

i have been around addicts for years. so many times i hear "you'll know".

but i had NO CLUE that my xabf relapsed and was using from time to time. i walked in the house unexpectedly once when he had a friend over. i walked into the garage and saw the friend torching out a meth pipe. i did not realize, because i was lied to so convincingly, that it wasn't just the friend's pipe. in fact, i didn't know it for months, til the friend got clean, came to visit me to make an amend, and told me.

ugh. that was a crappy, painful reminder.
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