Thanks for all your honest opinions. I did suspect I would get that reaction, and I’ve always said that I wouldn’t live with him until he was in recovery and our relationship was working well. I want to be excited about moving in with someone, not wary. Thanks for giving me a nudge in the right direction. My thinking has obviously become a little blurred at the moment. Part of me still thinks it would help him, but would it help me? Probably not.