Kim, thanks for that post. I am in the "guilt" phase, even though my husband left me. Our trial is scheduled for July 1, although I hope to settle before then. I just changed my settlement offer because I realized I was feeling sorry for him and giving too much, to my detriment. I was feeling sorry for the state of his life (but all due to his choices!), how codie of me.
What did you mean when you referred to his behavior in court? I'm very nervous about facing him in court and all he might do and say.