Mine was lazy because I made it possible for him to be lazy - because I did it all.
I did everything too, which helped him with his laziness. I should have never taken out the garbage when he said that could be his job....but a week later, that stuff starts to smell!
Mine too. I mean LAZY. Sits in chair all day/night when not working while I take care of house and 4 kids, homework, showers, baths, fixing things, running errands. Everything!