I wouldn't use the word "victim", it is much too harsh. How about someone trying to repair the damage? In any event, being a part of several support groups doe not define who we are. If the original label doesn't apply any more, change it. If you don't need as much support as you once did, give back to the newbies.
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Big realization about myself re: Woundology...but now what?
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