Thanks sofacat, yes I have a few places I can go to get some "me" space but so far I haven't felt the need. I am back at work today, that helps and I keep myself busy all weekend and spent a good deal of time away from him.
I'm gonna hit the gym after work then a meeting. I think my reaction to the situation has changed drastically because last night he said I act as if I don't even care, my response was I love you and have to respect the decisions YOU chose to make and I ask that you respect mine as well..........he kind of didn't know how to react so he didn't.