Yeah, it's difficult but you did great not responding to the text. It's amazing how they can kick it into gear when they see that you have really had enough. Don't be fooled. He could have gotten a job before and he could have cleaned out the unit before and the only reason he says he is doing it now is to manipulate you into backing down. Don't fall for it. As you said, once he starts drinking, he'll turn nasty, but you will already be over the hump. Hang in there.
