Yes it is true, he is a very nice person, and maybe the biggest part of his problem is that he can't see it... but as the rest of it that can't be helped, or at least not by me... and that is the hardest thing to accept, that you can not help your loved one, that I just have to let him be and watch him drink himself to death...
But that's life I guess, or at least that's life for me, we can't all have it great, but have to try and make the best of what we have,... and that's what I'm trying to do for my kids and myself...