Hi Ferarri
You make some interesting points. I don't want this to turn into another one of 'those' threads but, basically all we can do here is share our experience.
I tried exactly what you're doing and it didn't work for me.
It would be irresponsible of me, or anyone else, to suggest otherwise.
But I also recognise people have their own journeys - I learned a lot doing things the way I did, even if it was the hard way.
I welcome anyone here, whatever their view - I like to think that we as a community can make it comfortable for people at all points in the journey to stick around...but we shouldn't shy away from telling it straight either
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