Sorry about my mis-post! My computer was possessed!
Anyway, I was saying, my recovery has been progressive, I think. I heard that alcoholics and addicts get "frozen" at the emotional age they are when they first start drinking and using.
As I got sober and began recovery, I began to mature emotionally. I got more patient, less likely to jump to conclusions and able to "go with the flow" instead of sinking into depression or flying off the handle.
I had some private therapy, went to AA and read a lot about recovery. A 12 Step Program is a good plan for emotional growth, I think. I suppose that's why it's used so much. The basic principles are sound.
I hope this makes a little more sense.
Love,
Lenina