Thanks so Much~ DMC - Your message made me laugh the anit - vomit payoff money. Good Lord I would pay for that too.
He knows he can make me fearful so you are correct I need to stay focused and yes I will speak with an attorney- someone I know whom I trust. if I don't engage he can't fight with me. REMEMBER THAT REDHEADSUSIE! I know I am strong - have always had to be - raised my 2 sons by myself - and did just fine- actually I did great! They are awesome young men at VT- GO HOKIES! Thanks again!