he's using your child as a weapon to hurt you.
a child he probably doesn't really want.
what he wants
is a way to get out of having to pay child support.
he's even pre-arranged who will be doing the caretaking -
the new drunk gf.
what this guy really cares about is money, honey.
my ex ranted and ranted about
how he was going to lie in court
and take my kids away from me.
he literally blackmailed me for years over that
using my fear of losing my kids
as a weapon.
finally one day he's threatening me and i just ... snapped.
I said
"fine. come get them. they'll be packed and ready to move in with you by six."
And i went and started packing up everything of my sons.
THEY freaked
they called him and started asking about moving in
when what were they going to do for a rooom....
I let it go. didn't get involved in their conversations.
Kids' dad didn't show up.
I never heard from him about taking my kids ... ever again.