Originally Posted by
HumbleBee 
If you're hoping that you might be able to help them change their ways, I'd advise against it - nobody wants or will really get sober until they want to. If we're truly focusing on our own sobriety, we won't have time (nor should we) to be concerned with trying to change someone else.
Oh no I'm not in a position to change anyone's ways and just trying to focus on getting myself straight. I repeat to myself often: there's my business, their business and the HP business. What I might be struggling with is the idea of "using other peoples misery in order to get better myself", if you know what I mean?