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Old 04-06-2010, 08:08 PM
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coffeedrinker
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tpen,

can you believe that she is defective?

what is it about this statement that causes you to feel so badly?

YOU did not bring dishonor upon either one of you; she did this all on her own.


for me, i have sought validation from many, many people in my life: my father, my ex-husband, my current relationship man, my supervisors. i have found (although not all the way there yet!) that when i believe in myself, really love myself, and accept myself for the flawed yet beautiful person i am, i'm much better off.
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