I saw the thread for a few years and it never fit me and then my ex went to jail. And so I stopped in and tried to figure out how to talk to my kid and met some new friends here. He's never spent a long time in jail...yet.
Tonight my kid is with him and just called. His dad's been asleep since he arrived. I don't even think he knows I'm here my kid says. Grandma is there so all is safe but it makes me sad.
Hugs to you all. It's nice to have a place where people get it.