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Old 04-02-2010, 11:28 AM
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Jazzman
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Join Date: Jul 2005
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Originally Posted by LaTeeDa View Post
I've read some horror stories on this board about credit card companies coming after the spouse, after the divorce, even though the settlement excluded them from paying the debt. They can.

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My ex AW is dead and they still call me on her delinquent accounts, and we've been divorced 2005. I am in now way responsible because they were debts incurred after the separation, but they still call me every six months when her debts roll over to the next collection agency in line.

WOD I'll be frank here, get your own income and keep it separate and apart. Get your name off any account you share with any active addict in your life. Pull a credit report on your husband because that is THE ONLY WAY you will know about any account/s your name is on with his.

And the promise to "not do that to you"... When the chips are down and an active addict is cornered and forced to choose between fight or flight mode THEN you will see just what he is capable of.
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