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Old 03-31-2010, 08:58 AM
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NewMe11109
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Hi Wombie -

The key for me was just being open-minded to all the different approaches that might help. This was all new to me, so everything felt strange and uncomfortable (whether it was AA's spiritual solution or other approaches).

When I had moments of clarity, I always went back to the following question of myself: "So NewMe, how is your method working for you?" When I responded honestly, it was clear that my method wasn't working.

So, I decided to ignore my immediate flight/flight repsonse and just relax and try some other approaches.

I found that how I liked AA was dependent on the specific meeting group I went to. The overall program ended up being great, but I had to spend some time to find the right group.

But, in the end, it is up to you what you do. Just please be willing to listen to others who have been successful in recovery. They have a lot to offer.
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