I used to believe in the term "highly functional alcoholic" until I actually quit drinking, got sober and realized that I was really not functioning at all (let alone highly) or at least up to my potential as an important part of the Universe, that there is no such thing as a "highly functional alcoholic" it's just a misunderstanding on the part of the alcoholic, almost a thinly veiled excuse, or denial, but wait until you get sober and you will see what "highly functional" is really all about, and IMO it cannot be achieved under the constant influence of a depressant drug, the ultimate destroyer of senses. An alcoholic is not functional at all, in fact it's one of the ultimate human dysfunctions, in any case; Welcome to SR, congrats on your decision, and good luck!! This is a great forum, it helped save my life and I have learned ALOT here from many great people, many of whom will be along shortly I am sure to welcome you as well.