Originally Posted by
lostmyway 
And every sponsor I've had (which is three now) has never touched step work with me. I finally asked the sponsor I have now and she told me not to even think about it, to just worry about staying sober.
Sorry to say this, lost, but it may be time for sponsor #4. Of course you can't do whatever it takes to stay sober - you haven't found someone to guide you!
Living sober is not a matter of "just not picking up a drink." It's soooo much more than that.
How can you worry about "staying sober" (as your current sponsor told you to do) if you don't know
how.
Your sponsor should rock - you should want what she has - if neither of these are true, time for another one - even if that means #10. It's worth it. You're worth it.