Originally Posted by
Charlotte2276 
I'm more concerned with being at my Mom's house with my familly. We're drinkers and everyone will really notice when I don't drink.
Hmm. Family. Some might say 'just be honest with them.'
I'd caution against that. Everyone's feelings are different about how/when they expose their sobriety and to whom. Only you know what's best since only you know your own family dynamics and situation.
That said, re: the family and drinking...aside from saying that
you're training for the Olympics or
you're pregnant 
, maybe saying you're on antibiotics (cold, whatever) and can't drink might be an option.
It's bound to happen that people are going to offer you a drink (family or otherwise, along your sober journey) - it's happened to all of us. Here are some ideas:
How to Turn Down a Drink: 12 steps (with video) - wikiHow
All the best to you. It takes some getting used to, but it's worth it.