Thanks guys for the advise, but I think last night was the end. As usual, she was intoxicated and got on the phone with our son (grown) and told him a lot of things that wasn't true about me. I've made the decision that I've been as miserable as I'm going to allow myself to be, and I'm moving out. I'm fairly sure that she can't make it on her own, but I refuse to allow her alcoholism to kill the both of us. Thanks again for all your comments, and I wish all of you the best of luck in your soberiety.