hey tex-
I don't know you well enough to say,
but the way you wrote that,
my 'gut reaction' was 'passive-agressive', yeah.
(re: the 'have to have a drink every night' in front of her statement)
Why not come over to the Friends and Family Forums and introduce yourself?
There's a GREAT bunch of people over there, and TONS of first hand experience.
Welcome to SoberRecovery !