Hello and welcome
I came here three years ago, desperately looking for some way to save my daughter and this place and Al-Anon helped me to learn everything that I could about this disease...where I could help and where I couldn't; and that I couldn't love her into sobriety ....
I learned how to take care of me through the pain of loving an alcoholic and where my boundaries needed to be by spending time in the Families Forums and at Al-Alanon, a face to face support group; for anyone who loves an alcoholic.
This is a blessed place, lots of experience, strength, and hope
....hugs