I'm sorry to hear your going through that.
i dont believe you can contribute to others alcoholism.
i would suggest giving your partner as much information as possible.
nearest AA meeting...aa helpline number......web address for SR.
it maybe that your partner is alcoholic.....please dont be ashamed.......it is common and there are solutions IF she wants help it is possible to live a contented life without booze.
please be aware that it is dangerous to stop drinking abruptly.
can you get your partner to come to SR?....
my names Shaun I'm a alcoholic if i can be of anyhelp please pm me..
if you cant pm because you dont have enough post...just keep posting till you do..
god be with you and your partner.