Hi Anna
Yes, I have been in touch with the police. She skipped out of NY state with scaddy-eight collection agencies on her tail, and my attorney. But, you can't get blood from a stone, so....
As to the police.... They are considering it a "domestic dispute" - i.e. a civil case. Apparently if you live with someone for six months, it's considered a "domestic partnership". Who knew?!?!? This begs the question: Why are gays and lesbians (me) banging our heads against the wall trying to get domestic partnership benes if the state already considers us "domestic partners"?
As to our "daughter", she's back with her homophobic father who I have a lifetime Order of Protection against. I'm hoping she will contact me on her own when she's old enough to navigate such things. At least that's the hope I'm clinging to at the moment. In the meantime, I'm keeping my eyes directed forward rather than backward.
One day at a time, one day at a time................