Yes, he has given you yet another entry in the "against" column.
Leaving his pregnant and unwell wife to fend for yourself, and cope with the hassles that would arise if you needed to have speedy medical help, is not only stupid...it is callous and dangerous.
Seems he is as much use to you as a lump of wood, and almost time for him to get the boot, straight out the door.
I would love to shake some sense and decency into his empty head space.
I have you and your children in my constant prayers, that you will soon have the life you deserve, free of this unfeeling, unthinking useless object of addiction.
God bless