I had an online date not too log ago where I decided to have a couple drinks even though I told myself not to drink because I turn into a different person. Im always very nervous in social situations and especially first dates. But after dinner I couldnt come up with somewhere to go off the top of my head and asked if she would like to grab a drink at the bar, she said yes and it went well for the most part. But...at the same time I wish I didnt because the way I talk and get more comfortable can be embarrassing especially when just getting to know someone. Thats not the impression I want to make. So I say if you wanna quit then dont give yourself excuses where its ok to drink. I know for me I just cant drink on dates because I run a huge risk of making an idiot out of myself.